Dicken Bettinger: Founder, Three Principles Mentoring, and co-author of Coming Home.
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How can we create workplaces where every voice matters, everyone thrives and finds meaning, and change and innovation happen naturally?
Dicken Bettinger: The first point I think is relevant here is that everybody has already built into them everything they need to thrive. A lot of people think they lack the qualities that are necessary to thrive, so they work hard to try to develop those qualities. It’s a different starting assumption when a group of people already has what they need to thrive, be creative, productive, inspired, and motivated. It’s built-in to all of us. It’s built-in to human beings to have that capacity. There are things that people can learn that help brings out those innate capacities and abilities. Repeatedly, we began to see the most important variable—and the least recognized variable regarding importance in a business setting—is the state of mind of people within the workplace.
The next point I think that’s important to talk about is the state of mind. I worked for 16 years doing executive leadership, staff development, and cultural change programs. Repeatedly, we began to see the most important variable—and the least recognized variable regarding importance in a business setting—is the state of mind of people within the workplace. It’s critical. It’s the biggest determinant of how productive people are, how well they listen, how well they communicate, the quality of decisions, the ease with which a group can make decisions, and their ability to solve problems collaboratively. The state of mind determines all these qualities.
When I worked in companies, the first thing I would do is help people become more aware of the state of mind and why it is so critical. And why people must access this innate capacity for thriving, being productive suddenly, and for collaboration. All the things people are looking for in the workplace. For example, if you have two workgroups working on the same task, and one is burdened with stress, and the other is stress-free, it’s pretty evident which group would do better with a specific job, especially in the long run.
A person’s understanding of the state of mind determines how resilient they’ll be, which means there’s no problem with experiencing stress in the workplace. But if you live under stress for long periods of time, it begins to affect all the key variables. Helping and teaching people what they need to learn to become more resilient and accountable for their own state of mind is an incredible way to leverage any person or any group in the business setting.
Without new thinking, things don’t move forward in a business context. Things don’t evolve. Problems don’t get solved easily.
This all becomes possible when people discover their potential for new thinking. Without new thinking, things don’t move forward in a business context. Things don’t evolve. Problems don’t get solved easily. The only things in the way of new thinking are the habits and patterns of thinking that people get caught up in without being aware that their own thinking is the problem. Most people have not learned that the stress they feel is being created from their own thinking. Most people have erroneously been taught that stress is created by circumstance.
We’re finding out by all kinds of scientific studies that circumstances can’t determine a person’s state of mind. If you took a very stressful situation and put 100 people in it, some people would experience great stress, but a lot of people would be extremely calm. At the same time, a lot of people would be thriving, inspired, and productive despite this circumstance.
Each one of us is always thinking and whatever we think we will experience. That’s where our experience comes from; it’s created from the power of thought. It’s not created by circumstance.
However, there’s also another variable that people have been missing, and that’s the role that thought plays in creating an experience. In my business training, it would be the most important key factor to teach people. Each one of us is always thinking and whatever we think we will experience. That’s where our experience comes from; it’s created from the power of thought. It’s not created by circumstance.
It’s fascinating, you go into a company, and you find people who are not being productive, who are feeling stressed, and who are in unproductive states of mind. Then you ask them, why do you think you’re feeling stressed? Why are you unproductive? Why are you having difficulty communicating, and why are you so preoccupied that you don’t listen? They will always point to something in their circumstance that they think causes them to be the way they are. And that’s the misunderstanding. That’s the human misunderstanding that’s gone on for centuries that creates so much stress and unhappiness in people anywhere in the world. It’s a misunderstanding, and there are discoveries about the actual way in which experience is being created. Now we can account for the state of mind and why we go in and out of different states of mind. And why sometimes we get stuck in states of mind that are not very helpful or productive. We now understand that very scientifically, so we can teach people about the importance of the state of mind, and that state of mind is determined 100% from thought—as opposed to circumstance.
The key factor in business is the state of mind, and the key determinant of a state of mind is a person’s understanding of the role of thought.
You’d be surprised that one missing link – the role the power of thought plays in creating an experience – that one piece people are not very aware of makes all the difference. It can help people wake up to the fact that they’re a thinker. How they think about things creates how they feel about things. People begin to realize that thinking is the source of their tension, stress, reactivity, and dissatisfaction. When people begin to realize that those are feelings created from thought instead of circumstances, they will back off from the thinking that’s perpetuating that stress or upset. As soon as they do, their head clears of that thinking fairly soon. Their head clears of that thinking without any effort, without any technique. And with greater clarity, people always do better. Out of greater clarity, people automatically begin to get new thinking, which is uplifting and helpful. The key factor in business is a state of mind, and the key determinant of a state of mind is a person’s understanding of the role of thought.
Note: This is a preview of the full interview. The complete interview was selected by Apress for publication and continues in The Future of the Workplace.